Boy,Miguel,you are confused. I think you're the problem here, not your wife. First of all, you should not have lied to her about seeing Diane.You should have telling her the truth. There are a few of the reasons that have shown what have you done,and what should you have done.

Firstly, You and Diane are just friends. There is nothing to hide.Why do you lie on your wife to seeing Diane? It might have made things worse. You have got to be honest to your wife.You should have asked your wife to have lunch together with Diane as well. Secondly, you do not respect your wife since you lied her.You must have to respect other independence,freedom and lovable,and your wife should have to know it too. Both of you need to communicate with each other to avoid misunderstanding. That was not a big deal to meet Diane. To maintain a good relationship between you and your wife, you should have to know about sharing too. Share your happiness and sadness,it will also make your relationship to hold together. Do not blame on your wife of jealousy. It could be happened on every woman as they do care about their husbands.You should have learned to be forgiving. You should have tried to speak whisper to your wife, It can also be worked.The most important thing is, both of you should have to give some spaces to each other. Support your spouse even if you can't support the issue.

You must learn to listen your spouse, respect him or her,give what your spouse want and not what you want of your spouse. Do not do whatever you do not like somebody does to you. It might take both spouse time and effort to work together to maintain a good relationship, do not give up the relationship because of minor problems.

Past perfect and past perfect continuous. '-------'

Kaoru had been sitting on the beach when she suddenly noticed the weather became very windy. She had been thinking about the most important decision she had ever had to make in her life.
Things had not been the same between Kaoru and Kenshin, her boy friend who worked with her, since she decided to continue study oversea in Texas. They had known about each other for almost 3years, and in that time they had never argued much. For the first time, she was starting to wonder if she was ready to break up with Kenshin. She was scared because the distance between her and him were too far. In fact, Kaouru was not really wanted to give him up. And with the flight only forthteen days away, she needed to make her mind soon.
Everything in Kaoru’s life had been going well. What she had been thinking was, she still young. She had never been giving up her dream. She felt guilty because she had never been left Kenshin alone.
After a few years, Kaoru had finished her study and she had been working at Verona Coffee Café as a store manager in Texas. She received a letter from Kenshin, and it was about, he had already moved to Texas and opened a new Coffee Café in Irving, where is a town in Texas. He had been waiting for Kaoru to be with him together, and he had invited Kaoru to be the Coffee Café‘s owner. It was surprisingly Kaoru and she had never expected anything. Finally, she had promised Kenshin to be the owner of Coffee Café. By ended up, they were married.

Just my imagination~xD

I have been living in Texas with my brother at the age of twenty. I am a student who studies in Northlake international school, and I have taken TOEFL which is an examination before I came to Texas. I have been working at Starbucks Coffee Café as a part time barista. I previously had also worked at Starbucks Malaysia for a period of time.
I have learned to be more independent and how to survive without help from others. I have also learned about the art of coffee. The most important thing is, I made a lot of friends there. I met my best friend, Shin. He is a friendly, responsible and humble guy. He has worked as a part time barista when he was a student. He has already converted to full time as his father has been having financial problem. Shin has been helping me a lot, and he has never scolded me even when I make mistakes. As time passes, I became a more confident and knowledgeable barista under his guidance.
I have been taking psychology as my major course. Other than my study, I have also been joining dancing because I wanted to lose weights. It has been very challenging for me because I was fat. I have been losing a lot weight lately because of the dance classes.
I have worries about staying with my brother and his wife because I might be of trouble. They have been supporting me financially. That is why I need a part time job in order to reduce their financial burden.
I have been promissing myself that I have to do well. I will not make my familly and beloved friends who live in Malaysia In dissapointment.

My life have changed

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I was a volleyball member when I was in high school. My life has changed since I became a full time barista in Starbucks Coffee Café in Malaysia. Not only my daily activities have changed, but I have also been changed many ways.

I have more responsibilities before, and I became more confident and strong. I usually watch anime every night, but if I work in morning shift, I have to sleep early as I need to wake up at 6.am. As a barista, I need to know what is multi-tasking which is meant you are able to do a lot of task in the same time. Beginning, I need to know how to clean the café, where to stock up all the resources. Not only I have to know how to make a cup of good coffee but I have also learned to be a politely and professional cashier. We are also called as partners. My work time, which was flexible, depended on the partner’s schedule.

We have also needed to know our customer very well like remember their names, favorite drinks and so and so forth. I used to be girl who likes to stay at home, but now I almost spent my time in my workplace. It was a busy store during public holidays or weekends. I have to work overtime even though I have already finished my shift. I used to work from morning shift until midnight. I was totally exhausted but I enjoyed the every moment with my lovely partners.

I have also changed by making friends. I made a lot of new friends. They are all good and friendly. They are good to communicate to each other, and easy to close with. Moreover, I have close friends. I feel as if they are my brothers and sisters. In our spare time, I enjoyed to hang out with them, shopping or just talking and laughing together. It is a wonderful and worthwhile brotherhood.

Overall, I am pleased to have a great opportunity to change my lifestyle as well as my learning styles. I am also happy that my life has been changed into an amusing friendship which I have never had before.