Thursday, January 28, 2016

Thursday, January 16, 2014

每一种領悟,都是一种成熟。

每一种領悟,都是成熟的開始。 ****朋友:怎麽你看起來都比我累? *********************************我:是咯,我也不懂爲什麽我會那麽累~== *************************朋友:是心累嗎? *******************************************************************我:........(或許吧) ***********************************************************************出乎意料的被說中的感覺,有時也不懂要怎麽回應,哭笑不得。 對於我愛狗,Momo的離去,我更是愧疚不得。。覺得自己沒有那個能力,把它養得更好,給它更好的。。。如果不是自己的疏忽,或許它的命運也不會那樣如此吧。。。與其說上天決定萬物之命,倒不如說是人爲。。。 謝謝每一位關心我的朋友們,還有一位特別為我獻唱了一首梁文音的歌,'我們都別哭了', 多麽有意義的一首歌,謝謝你 =) 雖然淚還是不聽話的在流,就連Rocky也知道我不開心,它還特地的把它的腳搭在我的腳上,仿佛就叫我別傷心。。。 大老闆,親戚們離世的痛都不能與他們家屬的痛相提並論。痛,是最難學習的。往往都不能再任何人身上學的到。痛,是一種經驗,是一個過程。不同的待遇,不同的經歷,就會有不同的痛。痛的魔力在於成長,它是一種精華,讓你迅速成長。處理的好,就會變得更明白事理。處理得不夠好,反而更是一種傷害。學習如何去處理痛,是很需要時間的,還有那廣闊的思想。做人最具挑戰的就是那一句,'看開點吧!' 往往人類最大的缺點,就是執著吧,執著于一些事,一些很在乎的事。這沒有對錯,要學會接受。 雖説是人之常情,生與死是每個生物的必經之路。說,永遠比做人來的瀟灑,因爲說,用不着負責任,哈哈。直到經歷過了才知道做人瀟灑並不簡單。 什麽笑看風雲,不羈一生,看透紅塵是需要經過多少的歲月,經歷過多少的痛和領悟才能達到那境界。 做人啊,滄海一聲笑!談何容易~ 人類是複雜的,世界是美好的。等到容易之時,就是告別這世界之時。(不是叫你自殺) 微笑吧~ *******************痛,是一種經驗,是一個過程。 ***路,要好好地走。心,要勇敢的往前走,隨著陽光而走。

Thursday, November 7, 2013

FTISLAND - Distance

http://www.youtube.com/v/scT6xjzY7Lc?autohide=1&version=3&attribution_tag=-g1tjoGsIpWr-Vz-rQP9Vw&autoplay=1&showinfo=1&feature=share&autohide=1

距離。痛

你懂距離嗎?最痛的距離就是在你以為很近的時候,卻是最遠的。

友情也不過是如此。。。心淡與失望進行的同時,累積的痛,過程難熬。。終于來到了一個境界,看開點吧女孩。要麽接受,要麽離開。往往我會選擇留下,微微笑的,一切都還好。 =)

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Boy,Miguel,you are confused. I think you're the problem here, not your wife. First of all, you should not have lied to her about seeing Diane.You should have telling her the truth. There are a few of the reasons that have shown what have you done,and what should you have done.

Firstly, You and Diane are just friends. There is nothing to hide.Why do you lie on your wife to seeing Diane? It might have made things worse. You have got to be honest to your wife.You should have asked your wife to have lunch together with Diane as well. Secondly, you do not respect your wife since you lied her.You must have to respect other independence,freedom and lovable,and your wife should have to know it too. Both of you need to communicate with each other to avoid misunderstanding. That was not a big deal to meet Diane. To maintain a good relationship between you and your wife, you should have to know about sharing too. Share your happiness and sadness,it will also make your relationship to hold together. Do not blame on your wife of jealousy. It could be happened on every woman as they do care about their husbands.You should have learned to be forgiving. You should have tried to speak whisper to your wife, It can also be worked.The most important thing is, both of you should have to give some spaces to each other. Support your spouse even if you can't support the issue.

You must learn to listen your spouse, respect him or her,give what your spouse want and not what you want of your spouse. Do not do whatever you do not like somebody does to you. It might take both spouse time and effort to work together to maintain a good relationship, do not give up the relationship because of minor problems.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Past perfect and past perfect continuous. '-------'

Kaoru had been sitting on the beach when she suddenly noticed the weather became very windy. She had been thinking about the most important decision she had ever had to make in her life.
Things had not been the same between Kaoru and Kenshin, her boy friend who worked with her, since she decided to continue study oversea in Texas. They had known about each other for almost 3years, and in that time they had never argued much. For the first time, she was starting to wonder if she was ready to break up with Kenshin. She was scared because the distance between her and him were too far. In fact, Kaouru was not really wanted to give him up. And with the flight only forthteen days away, she needed to make her mind soon.
Everything in Kaoru’s life had been going well. What she had been thinking was, she still young. She had never been giving up her dream. She felt guilty because she had never been left Kenshin alone.
After a few years, Kaoru had finished her study and she had been working at Verona Coffee Café as a store manager in Texas. She received a letter from Kenshin, and it was about, he had already moved to Texas and opened a new Coffee Café in Irving, where is a town in Texas. He had been waiting for Kaoru to be with him together, and he had invited Kaoru to be the Coffee Café‘s owner. It was surprisingly Kaoru and she had never expected anything. Finally, she had promised Kenshin to be the owner of Coffee Café. By ended up, they were married.

Just my imagination~xD

I have been living in Texas with my brother at the age of twenty. I am a student who studies in Northlake international school, and I have taken TOEFL which is an examination before I came to Texas. I have been working at Starbucks Coffee Café as a part time barista. I previously had also worked at Starbucks Malaysia for a period of time.
I have learned to be more independent and how to survive without help from others. I have also learned about the art of coffee. The most important thing is, I made a lot of friends there. I met my best friend, Shin. He is a friendly, responsible and humble guy. He has worked as a part time barista when he was a student. He has already converted to full time as his father has been having financial problem. Shin has been helping me a lot, and he has never scolded me even when I make mistakes. As time passes, I became a more confident and knowledgeable barista under his guidance.
I have been taking psychology as my major course. Other than my study, I have also been joining dancing because I wanted to lose weights. It has been very challenging for me because I was fat. I have been losing a lot weight lately because of the dance classes.
I have worries about staying with my brother and his wife because I might be of trouble. They have been supporting me financially. That is why I need a part time job in order to reduce their financial burden.
I have been promissing myself that I have to do well. I will not make my familly and beloved friends who live in Malaysia In dissapointment.